It's so hard to see those that you love struggle. We get ourselves trapped in destructive loops that we can't get out of. I am one of these people...say the right word, the right phrase and off I go..push the button and I look back 10 minutes later and think...what the hell was that? Who was that person..that's not who I normally am...How can we dis-assemble these buttons? Get rid of them? Remove them for good?
You can't help someone if they are not listening. They are not listening because the voice in their head is screaming at them and won't let them consider something different. Desparation, Fatalism,Fear of death, We can drive ourselves to death by living with stress that we create. This can happen when death is the last thing we actually want. Our system hears what we tell it, feels what we feel, reacts to what we feel, Weight gain is a direct reaction that our bodies have to stress.
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